-by Guest Blogger Isha Jain
As the month of february comes, we can feel love in the air. We usually use the word the love. But have we thought what actually LOVE is?
Just the random thought come to my mind what is LOVE actually. Is it the relationship between two opposite sex? If yes, then what you will you the relationship between a father and his son or daughter , between a mother and her children or what you will say about the relation between the master and his pet??
The word love is a very pure word and usually associated with the divine. This word has no specific mean. It's the words that can't be expressed in word. the one can only feel it. the contrary is such tha simple four letter word has undefinable meaning. The examples of the true love is relation between the god and devotee , mother and daughter, father and son, heer ranjha, sohni and mahiwal.
now a days, this pure word is being spoiled by the so-called intellectual people, who have reached the moon , discovered the new galaxy etc and doesn't know the exact meaning of the word love. I failed to understand why people just associate the love with just the relation between the a girl and a boy. It is the stereotype pattern that has being set by society and we are just following it blindly.
the true love is defined by the sense of forgetting oneself and devote ourself to services of others ,sharing soul and body up to very extent ,reading the thoughts , feelings of other person.
this is the love. this type of relationship can exist between the person of the same-sex too. why the person feel disgusting thinking about the love of same-sex( GAY or LESBIAN).
Earlier in 12th- 13th century, there is the famous love which we all don't know . It's really the unique love story , that after reading it your brain will starting storming. the famous ghazal writer AMIR KHUSRAU has written many poem in different languages but in each of his , he direct his love towards only one person to whom he loves like hell. the person he loves is none the other but his contemporary poet friend AMIR HASAN SANJARI. it is popularly narrated that prince MUHAMMAD of MULTAN got Hasan whipped when they defined his order to separate. as proof of their love, Khasrau showed the prince the mark of the whip on his arm, at the very spot where has whipped! their attachment is also a mystic love story as others.
Why we always consider the love between two person? There was also a very famous love story of a poet who fall in love with his CAT so deeply that he wrote a fantastic poem describing his beloved and his love towards her.
So in end I just want ask people why valentine week is being celebrated by couples? Why the people feel so scared of the society that they don't show their love towards loved ones? Or why the other people interfere in the personal matter of others(like in case of gays or lesbians). Its their love, why we are snatching their basic right of being loved by the one whom they love??
Just think. Let yourself get out of this stereotype shackles of society, lead the future in very diplomatic way
LOVE: what does it mean?
Cup for Sachin!
Every four years, I support India, I cheer for India, I pray for India. I hope that this time India will win the World Cup. This time also, I am supporting , cheering, praying and hoping, but not for India, for SACHIN!
2nd APRIL 2011, Wankhede Stadium, Mumbai
Its the World Cup final. India vs Australia. Will the Aussies make it a 4th time in a row? Or the prayers of 1.25 billions will be heard?
If you thought you have seen the best of Sachin, that day he will prove you wrong! He will bat like no one has ever batted before, not even he himself. He will bat in such a manner that even the likes of Bhogles and Tony Gregs will fall short of words. The soul of Bradman will be there to watch him bat. And even 50 overs will appear such a small period.
And in the post match presentation, after Dhoni completes his "Well of course" speech and asked to lift the World Cup, he will step back and give this honour to the Sachin. Sachin will proceed to the Cup and not just the Wankhede stadium, the whole nation would be chanting "SACHIN SACHIN". With his every steps, the chant will go louder and louder, SACHIN SACHIN. And then moment will come. He will touch the World Cup, take it in his hands, lift it and then bring it down to his lips and kiss it !!!
WOW! I can clearly imagine everything happening in front of my eyes. And mere imagination can charge me so much, don't know what will I do when this all will actually happen! That moment, the World Cup will thank his fortune to have the GOD!
I can't write more. Let me enjoy the moment in my imagination. "SACHIN SACHIN!!"
Thanks for reading. Bye.
Dear Soldiers
To
The Soldiers of India
SUBJECT: A simple Thank You message
I am one ordinary citizen of the country you protect. Few days ago, while I was enjoying my holiday,I saw you all marching along the Rajpath, and a lady, whom we call the President, was accepting your salaami. I was so much impressed, that you were doing overtime even on a holiday, that I have decided to write a Thank You letter to you.
1. I would like to Thank You all for providing such a secure environment to our politicians, that they don't have to fear once before doing any crime.
2. I would like to Thank You for fighting all those Kargil and other wars, so that we can enjoy movies made upon them.
3. Thank You for ensuring security at a cricket stadium, so that we ordinary people can show our real patriotism by cheering for those 11 real heroes of our country.
4. Thank You for bearing the stones thrown by public in any protest, when those stones are actually meant our ministers.
5. Thank You for ensuring that no other country men can kill us, so that we can kill ourselves through drinking and chewing tobacco.
6. Thank You for using substandard weapons, so that we can top as a nation to have maximum deposits in a Swiss bank.
7. Thank You for being the peons of your high ranking officers and cleaning their houses which they have got in societies like Adarsh.
8. Thank You for protecting people like me who can only think and talk, but never DO anything.
9. Thank You for giving company to the inmates of Tihar, to the chickens at a butcher shop and to the dogs on the street, that they are not the only ones who live in inhuman conditions.
10. Thank You for giving up your lives in an already populated country.
Please accept my Thank Yous for an otherwise thankless job.
Yours and only because of You,
The Shameless Citizen of India.
My life in Year 2010!
Few days ago, one of my friend asked me, how was year 2010 for you and my reply was, "For some mine was perhaps a dream year, but I am yet to figure out if it really is MY DREAM."
MANAGE YOUR PRIORITIES AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL IN PLACE!
So another year has passed. There were some good, better, best as well as sad moments. Some new friends were made, some were lost. From a college guy, I became an office-goer. From blogspot, I shifted my blog here at wordpress. The 2010 was the year which has given direction to the rest of life.
If I look back, I can clearly divide the year in four parts- The transition, The Exams, Wellapanti (nothingness) and the Articleship period.
The transition period:
The year 2009 had ended on a low note with me struggling to balance my life with on going ITT, CA coaching, college exams and my bad health. (see here: Year 2009 for me). I wasn't able to figure out what I want! And then in January came the last blow-another torture- The Orientation Program.
But things changed unexpectedly. The 5-day Orientation was the turning point! For the first time, I realized what Chartered Accountancy is all about. Things began to clear out from then on. I realized that now I can't be running towards everything, I need to manage myself. I had entered a phase of life where getting the priorities right is THE most important task.
And for the next 3 and 1/2 months, my priority was clearing CA-IPCC Exams!
The examinations Period:
It was probably in the mid of Feb that I came in full-groove for studies. Before that I had relied more on my intelligence to score well[:P], but this time I needed hardwork too! And this hardwork stuff was very untypical of me. How I spent 2-3months mostly with books still surprises me. (One single blog post during this period shows it all!) But I knew I can't handle failures and the very thought of not being able to clear the exams, gave me jitters. Plus the hopes of other people that I will surely make it, on one hand was giving me courage, it was adding pressure also.
From 8th April onwards, in a span of 45 days, I had to clear 12 exams including the 4 deadly ones of CA-IPCC and the rest those of college. My focus was entirely on my priority- CA-IPCC and I knew I can (and I have to) clear the college exams by only studying a day before. And then came the 12TH MAY. This was my status on that day-
"Dont kno if i will clear or not, but past 1month has given me immense confidence.. Giving 11xams in a month, studying regularly till 3 at night, managing colg and ca together.. i did it all this! I deserve a pat on my back.. I am the most relieved person on the earth at this moment!!"
(FBook Status)
It was my last paper of IPCC, of Tax and I am telling you it went out so badly. I was just doing the exam, not knowing what I am doing. But that day, I wasn't thinking (was trying by best not to think) of it. My entire focus was on- yes, its all over and I am still alive! The examinations had completely drained me out, but I knew "rest" was still 2 weeks ago. I was having my sister's marriage on 28th May!
The Wellapanti phase:
Only a brother can understand how much labour he has to put in his sister's marriage. :P Be it the card distribution, welcoming guest or running too and fro for various things; its just exhausting. (See: The Wedding, Wedding: The Card Distribution, The Wedding Continues 3)
"Had a realy tiring day.. Back and legs aching.. Had to act as a waiter, photographer, peon.. all in one.."
( FBook Status)
But the prize of it (ie freedom) keeps you going. ;) On serious note, di's maariage celebrations were the apt dosage I needed after those 3 tiring (and testing) months.
After the marriage, came the June. It was for the first time in the year, when I was having nothing to do.
"again playing cricket, watching tv, surfing net, sending smses, talking on phone, sitting idle....again i am living life!!!"
(FBook)
God! how much I had missed all these things during first five months! Hanging out with friends, chatting with them on phone, facebooking, blogging, doing absolutely nothing the whole day, wow amazing! I was back to life!!
"spend some time at cumsome (inderlok), then went 2 McD (Chandani chowk) and had water there, then went 2 red fort but returned widout goin in, then came bak 2 cumsome 2 hav lunch, then went 2 NSP 2 hav ice cream and now finaly returns bak 2 home.. But this is nt the end.. The journey wil b continued at night..
returnd bak 2 home in evenin, then every1 assembled at my place, then in Mohit's car went 2 Model Town 2 hav maggie, then went to Mohit's home and ordered Pizza, then played cricket at 1AM, then at 5AM went 2 symmetry(near Dhaula Kuan) but didn't find the place, then went 2 India Gate but lost our way in between, then came back to Mohit's place and finally through metro reached back our homes!!"
(FBook)
Life was again seeming to be happy fair. All the tearing of hairs were seeming to be a thing of past. So much so I was enjoying this period, that even the thoughts of result were miles away.
Then I also had my first tryst with Mumbai in mid-July. Be it sitting at the Marine drive and glaring at the unending sea, or the lovely never ending rains of Mumbai or the panipuri, sevpuri, vadapao and paobhajji, it was all so amazing!
The Mumbai trip was over and I was still doing nothing. The second year of college had commenced (See also:No more a fuchaa!). Though I hadn't decided of whether to continue with the college or not, but somehow I knew what was going to be my eventual decision. Those 2-3days of college that I attended, they were more like a small clipping of what I had to miss- the wellapanti, the maggie, the unplanned programs and the carefree life! But I knew these things can't be my priorities.
4th August 2010!
My CA-IPCC result was out.
"Got 244/400 in CA-IPCE :)"
(FBook)
I had done it! It was an amazing feeling of achieving something in life. But frankly speaking, I was not overwhelmed, because I knew what was to follow. The result meant my college life was over and I have to spend my next 3years in office doing my articleship. Its just that the other option-of failing and again giving these papers-was worse!
Meanwhile, my college result was also out and I surprisingly scored above 67%!
So after results, my next task was finding a CA under which I will spend my next 3 years of life. I was never so excited about the office life, the people were pouring in their suggestions and I was just hearing them.
"Looking for: a reputed CA firm, with metro connectivity, strict 10-5timings, saturdays off, providing 10000 as stipend, adequate holidays 4 exams and with proxy attendance system. Interested CAs contact me!! :P"
Finally I landed up with MGB&Co where neither of the condition was being fulfilled (except metro connectivity). And before moving ahead, a few lines on my first ever interview
"My fst ever interview! and was it good? I dont think so, but it was surely fun, especially the fact that i didnt kno it was an interview, until it actualy began!!!"
I had no idea that I would be having an interview that day. I thought I would just be introduced and then, if required, would be called upon for the interview. And then suddenly I was bombarded with questions! Even though the questions were quite simple but it had happened all so unexpectedly that before my mind could start working, the interview was over. I just remained in shock! But luckily (or unluckily) I was selected.
Before I could start my office life, some clean up work was left- I had to migrate from regular college to correspondence. And I am telling you the whole procedure of transfer was such a nightmare!! (Read this: OFFICE OFFICE: How to migrate fro college to correspondence in DU)
And with the migration process, a complete phase of my life ended! :'(
The Articleship
"Ghar se chal diye, bas ek bag pack aur ek pen... stipened ki fikar nhi, metro mein hum savaar.. Na jaane ab hoga kyaaa... Aooooo.. Ao..ooo... Auditinggg... Karni hai aaj!!"
16th September- This is the date which put a full stop to one of the phase of my life and started the other one. This is the date when my articleship period began. Though I joined the office from September 29! And how was my Day 1 at office?
"Day 1 at office! And it wasn't that bad, but neither good. Actualy it was a so different and new xperience, i dont knw if it was gud or not. It will take sometime 2 get used 2 suffocating 8x10 rooms. A new phase of my life has begun frm 2day! :( :)"
It was such a different atmosphere. I wasn't just able to make out anything. On one day, I used to like my office, other day I start thinking getting rid of it. I was just getting frustrated. I wasn't able to make adjustment of office with the rest of my life. And the worst part was the distance. Daily I had to commute from Rohini to Noida ie 1.5hours one way in metro.
The rush, long travel time, not having anybody of my age, the office environment- I was just losing it. Leaving office at 9AM and then coming back at 11PM, I wasn't able to take in anymore. And by the end of November, I had made full plans of quitting here and changing my office.
But then, out of nowhere, things changed- The workload reduced. I no longer had to travel to Noida, but to laxminagar only. Another of the article, who was on leave came back and I got a company. There were no more late nights at office. I was better able to manage my life. My mind got distracted in other issues. And finally, I dropped the plan of changing articleship!
11th December was another red mark day of my life! It was the day when I got my first ever salary Though a measly Rs.2000pm as stipend, it was special! Really special! Those were not just Rs.6560, but much much much more valuable than that.
In the year, I entered a completely new dimensions of my life. And you know what's the best part of this new dimension? That I still have the most valuable items- my family and my friends- with me!
Epilogue
It was 24th December. Me and the other article, we both were working in the office and wondering if we will get an off on Christmas or not. At the time of leaving, we asked the sir, if there is holiday tomorrow. He thought for a while and when I was about to conclude that there is not going to be any holiday, he gave an affirmation. And you don't know how elated I felt!
It was a hardworking year for me, and luckily, I got the result of all the efforts I put in. But there were small happiness like these which acted like seasonings on pizza and made this a wonderful year for me! And probably I was wrong when I said in the beginning that this wasn't a dream year for me. I think it was! :)
And unlike the last year, this year has ended on a really high note
So the year ended on a high note! Got the new car and then the bonefire-dj party wid frnds! :)
(FBook)
Thanks to all who made this year the way it was, for me. Thank You.
With hopes that our tomorrow would be better than our today, I end this post.
Dear Santa Clause,
Since throughout the year, I have been a good boy, Santa has asked me to send my and my friends wishes to him. Since, I was short of time I myself have written down the list of what you all my friends would like to have. Please go through the list and do let me know if I have omitted your name or you require something else.
Saurav: increase in pay!
Bhutani: a role in Haryanvi movie
Sonal: a rifle to kill those who havn't wished her on Birthday
Thanda: another poster for explanation of the previous one!
Tanu: she wont ask anything, infact she would start arguing why there is only male santa, not a female one!
Shuchita: some old newspapers to create her new dress
Manhar: he already has got what he wanted, and now its his problem if he is not accepting it. :P
Anuj: cluth plates for his Sonata
Bharti: promotion from the job of driver
Abhijeet: a new flat, to shift yet again!
Isha: I don't know what she wants (actually i do, but can't put it here), but my personal request would be to please give her some brain!
Devyani: tips on how to handle your juniors
Harman: C2H5OH
Raunak: spectacles!
Mohit: I think it would be Santa who would be begging Mohit for one out of so many that he has got!
For me: Some peaceful sleep. Good night.
Fill in the BOX to put your own Christmas Wish here!
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**WISH YOU ALL A MERRY CHRISTMAS**
Freaking News: Always Breaking!
Some news which are permanent...
These are such news which can be found as BREAKING NEWS on any time of any day!
Pakistan Cricket again in Controversy.
The latest allegations on the Pakistan's player by the XYZ Newspaper has given rise to yet another controversy in Pak's cricket. PCB Chief Ijaz Butt has called the controversy as an attempt by western media to defame Pakistan's cricket. ICC in its official statement has promised to look upon the matter and take necessary actions if anyone found guilty.
[ The next day you hear news of PCB banning 3-4 of its players and the day after these 3-4 players are included back in the team. And then there is another controversy and the same pattern is followed ]
Facebook changes its appearance.
Facebook, in order to keep up with the time, has announced some changes in its appearance. Facebook has claimed these changes to be in sync with user feedback and proposed to make facebooking experience simpler and better. But the groups like "I hate NEW Facebook" have started to crop in and one such group having more than 3lakhs member have urged its members not to use Facebook this Saturday as a mark of protest.
[ The next day, membership of this group goes from 3 lakh to 30 lakh and the day after we all get used to the NEW Facebook. And then in response of protest, FB makes some more changes and the same pattern is followed]
Talks possible only if terrorism stops: PM
Prime Minister Manmohan Singh has in a strong statement issued today has dismissed any possibility of talk with Pakistan unless terrorist activities are completely stopped. "We are willing to discuss all outstanding issues (with Pakistan) provided the terror machine (there) is brought under control," Singh said.
[ The next day, the same statement will be issued and again the day after. And after sometimes, Indian and Pakistani representatives would be doing round table conferences. And the terrorism keep flourishing ]
Hike in petrol, diesel prices.
If 12.34% inflation rate was not enough, there is some bad news for common man. The prices of diesel and petrol has been hiked by Rs.5 to mitigate the loss of Petroleum companies. The Government has said that such a decision was indispensable to reduce fiscal deficit. The left parties have called for nation-wide close in the protest
[ The next day, prices of all consumable products doubles up even if petrol/diesel prices have no significant effect on them. The day after, opposition parties protest causing more trouble to people. And then after a rise of Rs.5, the prices are reduced by 50 paisa and the drama ends, to be repeated again next month.]
Thats all for the news today. Read it again tomorrow for tomorrow's news!
BREAKING NEWS: XYZ Minister caugh in a corruption Scam!
Freaking News-2
The 'genuine' news!
1. Betting starts over IPL
While the Indian Premier League next season is 5 months away, the bookies are already in action. And this time, they are not bidding over who would be the champion, but which franchises would actually be playing in it. On the condition of anonymity a bookie revealed that most stakes are being put over Team Kochi, whose in and out from IPL has been more dramatic than Shoib Akhthar's inclusion and exclusion in Pak cricket team.
2. Rajasthan and Kings XI back in IPL
And as we were talking about IPL, here is a BREAKING NEWS! The Supreme Court, in a verdict has announced to include back Rajashtan Royals and Kings XI Punjab in IPL 4. The move came when both Shilpa Shetty and Priety Zinta threatened to start acting again if there teams were not restored.
3. Demand for M-Seal touches new record
With constant leaks of 2G spectrum tapes and documents of corruption in public, the demand for M-seal is breaking all records. Likes of Barkha Dutt and Ratan Tata are using it to save their reputation from being leaked out. But according to our sources, the major chunk of demand is coming from US Secret Services for fixing the leakage happening through wikiLeaks.
4. Animal Planet behind Strike in Parliament
This is the biggest revelation in the history of News!! The "real" reason behind 15 days strike in Parliament is now being unveiled. From our sources we have come to know, its the "animal planet channel", in order to maintain its TRP has bribed our politicians for the strike. This has been done so that animal lovers stick to their chanel and do not move towards other animal centric channels like DD Lok Sabha and Rajya Sabha where a bunch of dreadful animals runs the largest human democracy!
For now on, this is all we have for you. Thank you.
See also: Freaking News 1
Synchronizing Technology: The way to go
Why is it so that we "Shut Down" our PC, "Switch Off" our cell phones and "Turn Off" our TV Sets? Why do we have three different words for one single process!?
I am not a tech-geek, but any other person who has plenty of time to think about random things.
Take a simpler example. You have TV Set, it has got its own speakers. You have your PC, it has its own speakers. There is your mobile having its own speaker. Then you have your music system again having its own speaker! Won't it be much better and economical to have a single speaker set for all these instruments?
And its not limited to speakers. I am looking around myself, and I find there is so much wastage of technology, be it different displays for TV and PC or separate DVD players for TV, PC and music system or unique chargers for mobile, camera and iPod or, the most irritating one, different remotes for every product!
Why can't we synchronize all of them to act like a unit and not uniquely?
Hardware Synchronization
We have got a mobile phone, right? Nowadays it has inbuilt camera. But still it can't take place of a digital camera. Why can't we have all the features like optical zoom, panorma in a mobile camera? Apple provided music player in its iPhone, but why it's not at par with iPod? Why do we need a kindle when we can read on a mobile phone?
Won't it be nice if we have a mobile phone which can actually replace digicams, iPods, kindles and if possible, notebook too. And then this mobile can also act as the remote control for our TV, music system, DVD Players, ACs, fan, tubelights or any electric equipment. It may further act as our credit card, identity card, door keys and car key. Then you have further features like mobileTV, GPS navigation, gaming, the limit is endless. (Of course, keeping things simple while compressing everything in one small device would be a herculean task !)
This mobile phone would be completely synchronized with electronic equipment at your home and office. You play music in your mobile phone and it would be automatically played from the speaker set present in the house. Every electronic devices would have bluetooth or bluetooth-like technology which would provide wireless connection between them. Talking about devices, they won't be like computers, televisions, playstations, but functional based- a speaker system for audio output, and a display for video output and a player which can read data from CDs, pen drives, blu-rays, memory card and also act as your set top box and MoDeM. Thats it! What else do we need? Just these three products. Regarding input devices like keyboard, we can use our mobile or can have mini touch pad.
Whatever I am talking about is no science fiction. Read carefully and you will find there is no mention of any new technology but only proper use of existing ones.
Data Synchronization
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After hardware, lets talk about its soul- the data. How nice it would be if we get the same interface ie the bookmarks, shortcuts, settings, wallpaper and data while using any PC in or out of the world Today you have your favorite song stored on your mobile, your iPod, your CD and on your hard drive. And then thousands and lakhs of people have that song stored. Won't it be better if we store only a list of our favorite songs and play it via internet without actually downloading the song?
Another example- You click a photograph from your digicam. Now using a data cable, you transfer it to your PC, attach it on an email and then sends it to your uncle-aunt in New York. Won't it be better if they can directly access those photos from digicam's memory via internet (of course, there would be password protection for your 'special' photos)
What I basically want, instead of our hard disks, the data should be stored via internet at one single data centre. All we need to do is to just log in from any computer or mobile, like we on facebook, and access our photos, videos, music and other files. Instead of CDs, pendrive or atttaching file, we would just give the web-address of the file to the concerned person. (This system of data storage could be somewhat similar the The tree of souls and voices as shown in the movie Avatar).
Synchronizing Communication
Taking a step ahead, we can also synchronize the way data travels ie communication. Again I am looking around myself. I have got a DTH connection for TV, GSM connection for mobile, a traditional telephone line, a telephone based-broadband connection, a wireless landline phone and a FM radio. Then there are other technologies for communication like cable TV, IPTV, dial up internet, wifi internet, mobile internet, CDMA, 2G, 3G. And then within these technologies, we have SMS, MMS, emails, bluetooth, infrared and so many other things!
Again, i guess, broadly speaking we need only two modes of communication- one for short distances like bluetooth and other for long distance like 3G mobile or wifi broadband. The short distance communication would be used to synchronize our electronic devices at home, substituting the wires. And the long distance communication would be used for voice chat, text messages, television, radio, sharing photos, videos and other data.
Issues
I understand there are certain doubts about the viability of such synchronized system. And that's why I am not saying to introduce it all at once. But the electronics giants must take steps towards it. In fact, I am sure they must be taking it (like we have chrome OS based on storage of data via internet, TV on mobile etc.)
Some prime-facia issues can be-
Cost. Such technologies with so much of features would be really costly. But my point is the cost of synchronization would be nullified by the money we save by having lesser equipments (wont having single video disdplay for tv and computer save cost?)
Bundling up. Products would be bundled up with features that we don't require. Simple solution- customization of products as per customer needs.
Privacy. With our data stored somewhere else, privacy issues may creep in. But tell me, where is it more safe to keep valuables at home or in banks? With so much of data, obviously these data centers would have better security options than your pc.
Complicated. "So much" in everything would affect the simplicity and make things complicated to use. This a partly correct, but then any new thing appears complicated at first and then we get used to it (example is in front of you- Your PC!)
Likewise, I believe other issues can also be dealt with.
And as I have written above, these are nothing innovative. Having a camera in your mobile is also a part of synchronization. What I am saying is to take this synchronization to the next level, where mobile and cameras won't be different. Infact, daily we are having launches of products/technologies in this regard. iPad was one such launch (though I believe, it failed in its task of bridging laptop and mobile). Google cloud-based Operating system may revolutionize the computing world in this regard. Infact facebook is also doing the same thing by providing everything on our wall and also by storing our photos and other infos.
I again repeat: I am not a tech-geek, but any other person who has plenty of time to think about random things. So pardon my lack of knowledge or any mis-appropriation of fact.
Thanks for reading it. One more thing, I would like to clarify is- I am not saying all these changes should happen, but this synchronization (or you can say management) of technology is what I believe would be the future.
Eagerly awaiting your comments and suggestions.!
FREAKING NEWS!
Exclusive News which you will find here only. Collected from our reliable inside sources!
1. Tees Maar Khan declared tax-free in Delhi
Christmas gift for Delhites. Akshay Kumar and Katrina Kaif starrer Tees Maar Khaa has been declared tax-free in the state of Delhi. Our sources have revealed that the announcement came after Delhi Chief minister Sheila Dikshit heard the song "Sheela ki Jawani" from the same movie. She has also been reportedly seen dancing on this song. We do have the exclusive video in this regard, but keeping family audience in mind, we are not telecasting it.
2. Pamela Anderson charged for dis-proportionate assets.
In a rather shocking event, the CBI has filed a chargesheet against the the baywatch star, Pamela Anderson for having millions of dollars of assets. In a statement released exclusively to us, CBI labelled Ms. Anderson's assets as "disproportionate" and accused her for using "false means" to acquire them. A notice has also been issued asking Ms. Anderson to reveal all her assets publically.
3. A. Raja voted most liked politician in an sms poll
Finally, there is some good news for the former telecom minister Andimuthu Raja. In an sms poll conducted by us, he has been voted the most liked politician in the country among the mobile users. "Thank you Mr.Raja. Had you not distributed spectrum at such lower prices, we wouldn't have got such cheap sms and call rates." quoted one of the voters. Some experts are of the opinion that this spectrum policy has benefited over 67 crores mobile users in our country, more than any other policy in the past.
4. Rs.500 crores for Rajnikanth
He was the God of South India. And now he is the God of Punjab too. The Punjab government has decided to give Rs.500 crores to superstar Rajnikanth as a thank you token for diverting the focus of all sms jokes from sardars to him. This is not the first time that Punjab government has taken such a step. Earlier, the team of CID lead by ACP Pradyumann were also facilitated with Rs.100 crores.
That's all for the news today. Thank you and have a nice day!
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What is Cheating?
Just a random thought!
Yesternight, I was watching the TV show Emotional Atyaachar in which a person conducts a "loyalty test" on his/her partner through a sting operation. Though such shows are nothing more than crap and nor, I am here talking about of such shows. But watching it made me wonder, what is cheating?
A person who is committed to spend the entire life with you, can't he/she spend a night with someone else? People say relationships are not all about sex, but then why is it given so much importance if your partner has it with someone apart from you? It doesn't mean he/she doesn't love you anymore. We may love to dine out for once, but does it imply that we don't want home-made food anymore?(Just giving an example, I know these two things are not exactly comparable.)
People may talk about issues like morality, culture or societal order. But tell me what harm does it cause to anyone if two people are having some pleasurable moments?
One must understand that you don't own anyone. Let him/her do whatever he/she wants. What should matter to you is how he/she behaves with YOU. In this matter, I really liked the concept of dual-love in the Twilight series. Bella, she loves both Edward and Jacob, and kisses Jacob. But for Edwards it wasn't an act of cheating as he trusts that she loves him more than Jacob and would always be with him.
People may argue that their partner lied about spending time with someone else, but that's because society has created such an issue about it and as a result you two are not open about discussing such things. It's like we can't share everything with our parents and sometimes lie to them, though we still love them.
I am not saying whatever all I am saying, one should agree to it. I do understand that everyone has different levels of expectation. And if you can't let your partner freedom even for a night, though your partner still have it, fine! you two are probably not compatible with each other, just get separated. But don't label him/her as cheater! It's just that your thoughts didn't match.
See, what I basically wants to say is cheating is not if your partner is having good times without you, it's when he/she is not fulfilling his/her commitments. It's when he/she is not loving you!
I hope you got my point.
The topic is open for discussion!
One more thing- Do Not Have Double Standards! If you don't mind something for yourself, then you should also let your partner to have it.
(Wish I was a celebrity, so that tomorrow I would have had people protesting outside my home against my views, and as a result I could have got excuse for not going to office! Hate these Mondays!)
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